Hi, I’m Amber.

I am an 80s baby who was born and raised in Seattle, and while I will always be a Pacific Northwest girl at heart, I fell in love with San Diego and decided to build my life here. I’m a single mom, a homeschool parent, an introvert who somehow runs communities, and a woman who believes deeply in building a life that actually feels good to live in.

I’m also a science geek, an Excel lover, a strategy nerd, and someone who has spent over 20 years working in digital marketing and business communications. I hold a marketing degree and an AA in Business Communications, and I’ve built over a million dollars in network marketing over the course of my career. Not by being loud. Not by overselling. Not by pretending to be something I’m not. But by staying aligned with my values and helping other women do the same.

My work today sits at the intersection of hormone health, mindset, business strategy, and real life motherhood. I help women feel better in their bodies, think more clearly, and make money without shame, pressure, or pretending.

That didn’t happen by accident. It came from lived experience.

My Health Journey

For most of my early life, I struggled with my relationship with food and my body. I battled an eating disorder when I was younger, and for years I believed that control and restriction were the only way to feel safe in my skin.

Later, I learned that much of what I was dealing with had nothing to do with willpower and everything to do with biology. I live with insulin resistance. I entered perimenopause earlier than I expected. I learned firsthand how hormones, stress, trauma, sleep, and blood sugar impact mood, weight, motivation, and mental health.

I’ve lost over 110 pounds. Not through extremes. Not through punishment. But through learning how my body actually works.

Today, I love lifting weights. I hate cardio. I believe movement should feel empowering, not exhausting. I believe food should support your hormones, not be something you fear. And I believe body positivity means respecting your body enough to take care of it, not shaming it into change.

I’m certified in nutrition, trauma-informed coaching, and fitness instruction, and I work as a holistic life coach with a strong foundation in science. I don’t follow trends. I ask better questions. What system does this support? What is being ignored? Does this align with the nervous system? With hormones? With real women’s lives?

Hormone health is not a niche to me. It’s personal. It’s daily. It’s everything.

Motherhood and Homeschool Life

I’m a single mom and a homeschool parent, and this role has shaped everything about how I work.

I practice gentle parenting. I believe in emotional safety. I believe children deserve respect, autonomy, and adults who are willing to heal their own stuff instead of passing it down.

Homeschooling taught me something powerful. Learning is not one-size-fits-all. Neither is wellness. Neither is business.

My life requires flexibility, creativity, and systems that actually support a nervous system that runs on love, responsibility, and sometimes chaos. I don’t pretend balance is perfect. I believe in a journey without shame.

This is also why my work is built for real women. Women with ADHD. Women with trauma histories. Women who are burned out. Women in perimenopause. Women who want health and income but do not want hustle culture or toxic positivity.

ADHD, Strategy, and Keeping It Real

I have ADHD, and I suspect a touch of the autism spectrum as well. What that means for my work is this. I see patterns. I love systems. I get deeply obsessed with things like hormones, business funnels, spreadsheets, and strategy.

Strategy is my superpower.

I do not oversell. I do not exaggerate. I do not align with products, programs, or companies I don’t believe in. If something doesn’t pass my science test and my values test, I don’t promote it. Period.

I believe in body autonomy. I believe in human rights. I believe in informed choice. I believe women deserve money, clarity, and confidence without being manipulated by shame-based marketing.

I’ve spent more than two decades in digital marketing, and that experience made me skeptical in the best way. I know how trends are created. I know how fear is used to sell. And I choose a different path.

My approach is education first. Empowerment always. No pressure. No guilt. No pretending that life is perfect.

What I Do Now

Today, I help women:

• Understand their hormones and metabolism
• Navigate perimenopause with confidence
• Heal their relationship with food and their bodies
• Build sustainable wellness habits
• Create income through aligned business models
• Learn strategy without overwhelm
• Feel seen instead of judged

I blend science, mindset, business, and compassion into everything I create.

I believe wellness should be accessible. Business should be ethical. And growth should feel supportive, not stressful.

I don’t believe in quick fixes. I believe in long-term transformation.

My Philosophy

I believe in a journey without shame.

I believe in body positivity and body responsibility.

I believe in lifting weights and lifting women up.

I believe in science and spirit working together.

I believe in honesty over hype.

I believe in progress over perfection.

And I believe that women deserve to feel powerful in their bodies and their bank accounts.

Why I Do This

I do this work because I’ve lived it.

I’ve been the woman who didn’t trust her body.
I’ve been the woman who was exhausted and confused.
I’ve been the woman who felt broken.
I’ve been the woman who rebuilt everything from the inside out.

Now I help other women do the same, with dignity, with education, and with a whole lot of compassion.

If you’re here, you probably don’t want another program that tells you to hustle harder or shrink yourself smaller.

You want clarity.
You want truth.
You want tools that work.
You want a guide who keeps it real.

That’s me.

Welcome to Creating a Destiny.

A space for women who want health, confidence, income, and alignment without shame.

Your journey matters here.